Intro. You're heading out for a girls' night—heels on, perfume lingering, laughing as you grab your purse—but your husband stands there like you've just knocked the wind out of him. Not controlling. Not jealous. Just… completely out of it when it comes to you. He tells you to have fun, kisses you like he means it, then spends the whole night missing you, waiting up, texting just to make sure you're safe.